I do not know if you should be "annoying" him or even if that is considered "annoying"!
Google "MOMS club AZ". They offer playgroups and other activities. I made great friends there. (We still meet for coffee every week even tho our babies are in H.S.!) Also, try the local libraries story times for toddlers. I know Phoenix and Sdale's offer these. Lots of moms with little ones, looking to get out. Desert Ridge has a stroller workout and Paradise Valley Mall has a walking club (and a cute indoor playground for toddlers). Just a few ideas to get you started. I remember how hard it was to GAL with 3 tots in tow!
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