Either way you chose to go you'll need to take the high road. It is ( and was for me) the toughest thing to learn- but it will help YOU & YOURS if you do not act from anger.
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I am trying really hard not to show my anger - I know that one day I will be okay - I am so worried about my children.
My D13 Birthday is coming up and my mother in law wants to take everyone out to dinner - How do I sit at the same table with H this soon ? She has suggested that H do something with D alone - if I tell him I can not go be at the same table with him for D birthday - I am now the "B" - and how will this effect my D! Do I just do it and put on a happy face ?
LNG Me - 37 H - 42 S - 19 D - 16 D - 14 M - 20 years S - 1/11/2010 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1942142&page=1
