Tough decisions, blue. One of my biggest pet peeves is that our schools and our society at large teach us that there is a right answer and a wrong answer and it is our job to find the right one. Sometimes we have to choose between two equally good (or bad) choices, or varying degrees of the same. And most of us are not equipped for that!
Skip what your H said. None of his business anymore. Probably a more mature move that you din't tell him to F off and several other appropriate things. But it does sound appealing.
Check out the poem I pasted into my thread about risk...it might give you a smile at least. Whatever you choose, I am confident you can make the best of it. You're just that kind of woman.
undefeated 24 H 24 S's 4, 2, 1 M 5 yrs
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie
But it does sound appealing. 