I happen to agree with Deep: choices, decisions, vows, integrity. No offense, just a difference of opinion.
Dane, no offense taken. I didn't post here to argue people's definitions on words like choices, decisions, vows, integrity.
The only debate that matters with those words is between two spouses, and sometimes they agree and remain married and other times they don't and they divorce. No harm in either choice.
I just wanted to answer the question of the original poster: What did you and your spouse do to get things on the right track?
In my case, there were no possible options to get back on track. Other people have had different experiences. C'est la vie!
