Yep he usually leaves around 8:30 after our boys go to bed and last night he did, and he came home around 11:00p.m. and asked me why I didn't stop him from leaving and how I can be so mean. He has put up with me being bipolar over the summer I wasn't diagnosed so he dealt with a lot of crap from me. I was finally diagnosed early october and since then he has done things like stay out all night not call me and show up at 8:30 a.m., etc... He says that for all those months that he put up with me being angry, mean, non caring he can't let that go and then he does this stuff like I love you etc...