So I posted before but I want to recap my history of how I got to where I am now. My husband of 8 yrs says to me in Sept 2009 that he loves me but isn’t in love with me anymore. We have two boys ages 8 and 4. We are still living in the same house. He has been keeping to himself and I have been trying to move on with my life as far as being happy with who I am and going out and doing things I haven’t done in forever that make me happy. So I am changing in that respect and LOVE IT! So a week or so ago he texts me he loves me, something I haven’t seen or heard in at least 5 months. And that he isn’t ready to give up on us and we are worth fighting for. Then the next day he says he is sorry but that he just had a brief moment where he thought he missed me but the things he said weren’t true. So we go back to figuring out where to go next with separation etc…He started staying at a friends house about 5 days ago at night after the kids go to bed. Last night he comes home at 11:00 p.m. and wakes me up and says he loves me and isn’t giving up on us. So you guessed it today I get a text that “I am extremely depressed” and “I just think that you deserve better then me. I’m confused on where I should be. I don’t even like myself.” He tells me this and that he doesn’t have anymore left to give me. All that we talked about last night doesn’t matter he is out the door is what he said to me….really??? What the heck is going on, anyone please help!
