I have been preapproved for the mortgage. Enough to either buy my house or a condo. I told H that I was talking to the bank to follow through on one of those plans and all he would say is a condo in the city would be cool... I guess that he doesnt want me to buy this house? Ugh. I hate him. Really, I do. Then he asked me how my old dog was doing and went on to say that it makes him so sad. I just wanted to tell him to F off. Seriously, maybe you shouldnt have walked away from her! Twice! The mortgage is good news, but now I need to figure out what to do with it! I just keep going back and forth over what the best decision to make is. I think that I have a better chance of finding a job in the city, but I am nervous about leaving my place when I dont have a sure thing for a job! Even if I cant pay my bills, I would have a roof over my head, but maybe if I go out on a limb and take a chance on this Ill be able to have both!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
Hey bluerain, just popping in. What city are you thinking of moving to? I lived in ANC for 2+ years. Still miss the sweet potato fries at the Peanut Farm and movies at the Bear Tooth. Not that I would want to move back but at least there's a Target now and it's near my old house!
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Tough decisions, blue. One of my biggest pet peeves is that our schools and our society at large teach us that there is a right answer and a wrong answer and it is our job to find the right one. Sometimes we have to choose between two equally good (or bad) choices, or varying degrees of the same. And most of us are not equipped for that!
Skip what your H said. None of his business anymore. Probably a more mature move that you din't tell him to F off and several other appropriate things. But it does sound appealing.
Check out the poem I pasted into my thread about risk...it might give you a smile at least. Whatever you choose, I am confident you can make the best of it. You're just that kind of woman.
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"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie
... I told H that I was talking to the bank to follow through on one of those plans and all he would say is a condo in the city would be cool... I guess that he doesnt want me to buy this house? Ugh. I hate him. Really, I do. Then he asked me how my old dog was doing and went on to say that it makes him so sad. I just wanted to tell him to F off. Seriously, maybe you shouldnt have walked away from her! Twice! ...
It's not about him anymore. Let the anger go. Buy the house; love your dog; be happy.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
Blue, things are going so well for you. You have choices; always a good thing. As long as you don't rush into anything; I'm sure you'll be fine. I'm sure you'll be happy wherever you live; it's more about you than where you're living....
But it does sound appealing. 