I'm sorry. I never had OP involved or needing transparency because of PA/EAs so I don't think I have anything helpful to add to that.

The thing that stands out to me though is that I think you should have been honest with him when he asked if you were annoyed with him. Even if it was to say "yes, but can I sleep on it so I talk with you calmly and rationally about it another time?" You know you're mad and he knows you're upset about something, so denying it isn't helping. You're expecting honesty from him but you're not exactly setting a good example either (even though they're two different issues...). You did do good by taking some time to calm down though. smile


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