Pearl... words of wisdom! Yes, I told her something like that! It's hard being Mom. I completely agree w/H. She has to LEARN, and by us continuously rescuing her (which he is more guilty of than I), it hasn't been helping her. But, it also hurts to see her feel so bad. Ugh! So, right after I typed this a few min ago... her fb message status message changed to something along the lines of laundry, cocktails and a cig! ICK! I wish I could just spank her! I don't need the stress of her and their relationship, too.
I haven't ever checked on AD's or anti-anxiety. I wouldn't give up socially drinking either. Maybe I should just pour a glass or two of wine a night, and that will help me relax.
I'm starting to sound like a whiner.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I don't need the stress of her and their relationship, too.
