Oh, umm sitch specific would be:

Before I came here as Deep,
In my marriage, we both made some slips,
Hurt - there was aplenty,
Actually it got real ugly,
But today it's still us we hold to sleep.

Gads, I just read some of the stuff I came up with during the darker times. Shudder.

Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.