confusedwife - I'll check your thread shortly. missherlove - just read thru two of yours - incredible.
I can't tell you both and all the others how much it helps to read your stories - I certainly don't feel alone when I see what everyone else is going thru too - and I feel for you all too - what you have been thru is equally as devastating. It is truly amazing to read and take in all this. I am also curious if any of you found Facebook contributed to your spouse's hooking up with old friends and then absolutely becoming the "detachment" tool that parked intself directly between the two of you. I know I feel that way - but maybe thats unfair to blame it. It was a human (my wife in this case) who let it get between us. I dont know - just venting.......
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010
