Looking for Advice

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Sandi - good points.

And no you haven't added to my worries - my friend is the one who first brough it up to me today.

And no my W has NO IDEA and never can about my friend. She would go nuts. My friend pulled it out of me because he had seen too much for too long and knew we weren't donig well and saw a lot in me that he had been thru before. He is sworn to secrecy. I can't even imagine the rage if she ever found out he knew about the EA.