Cutter--you the Man.

New career, new house...I need to do the same for myself.


Need to think about engaging in this battle for the house. What defines wining in this case? And do I want to win, or do the right thing?

Holy crow, I am in a bad place right now. I offer my admiration for how you are handling things. And hope to find my own inner compass soon.

You rock.

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process