My Story...possible "grass is greener" scenario?

[pearlharbr]

I try to live by "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all" but you seem to be asking for it.

I don't want to put words in Sandi's mouth so I'll tell you what your response says to me.

You are acting like a spoiled, selfish child who is pouting because he didn't get his way. People here try to help you by giving you sound advice, but you didn't like what they said so you ignored it. Then you came back whining that you did everything wrong and pushed your ex further away but you can't understand why she won't just do what you want. Wash, rinse, repeat.

Everything is all about you. YOU want your ex back. YOU want your family together. YOU want ex to stop seeing OM because YOU don't like it. You're mad because ex is not saying/doing/feeling/thinking what YOU think she should. Everything would be fine if she would just realize that she is wrong and YOU are right.

Unless you start to address your own shortcomings you will be stuck indefinitely. It's hard work but it's necessary and at this point it's all you have left.

But like I said before, I'm sure that's not what you want to hear so you'll just brush it aside and contine your pursuing behavior until your ex gets a restraining order.