4luv - It is sad but true. Most people involved in an A are not just going to wake up one day and think, "You know, this is a lousy s^*@y thing to be doing. I should go make amends." As long as the disturbances in the fantasy are minor they can be overlooked and ignored. It's only when our life becomes a total train wreck that we stop and take stock.

*sigh* It is the goal of a parent to see us happy. And so they sometimes do what seems to fit that goal. Mine did. They didn't understand my choices one bit, but I looked very happy, so they said nothing. I would try not to think too badly of them. I hope that I would be able to tell my sons the truth if they were being fools, but it would be hard as a mom.

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Hmmm maybe we could give you our WASs phone numbers and you can call them with this message! LOL


Thanks for the vote of confidence. But I might swear a lot - I tend to get Turrets when I deal with people acting stupid.

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"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie