Thanks, lea, I am doing pretty well right now. It's a day to day thing. I'm glad for all of you who have gained something from me. It is both my penance and my pleasure.
Fallen Knight, I can't say whether jail will affect her the same way it did me. Remember I was vulnerable in several other ways too. But one thought I do have - if she does go to jail, do not bail out your wife!
She will say anything you want to hear to get your help, and then will most likely disrespect you and go back to her old patterns of behavior. Honest remorse will not ask for anything. Someone who is truly contrite will believe they need to pay the price for their bad choices. If she says otherwise I'd tell her she can prove it to you when she gets out.
undefeated 24 H 24 S's 4, 2, 1 M 5 yrs
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie
It's a day to day thing. I'm glad for all of you who have gained something from me. It is both my penance and my pleasure.