Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Sandi,
Thanks for the insight. I'm going to have to look up the meds and see what is what. There is only one she takes reguarly and rest are as needed - most had to do with reducing anxiety attacks/issues which as she even admitted were because of the sitch. Now she has rarely had to take those since she's gotten them (just so happens that I exposed the EA right about the same time as she got the anxiety meds and now has only needed to take them a couple of times).

I suspect if I brought up the idea of hormones, she would tell me nothing is wrong. But if she has another one or two of these wild swings, I am going to need to firmly tell her she needs to see a doctor or IC because what I saw from Sat night to Sun afternoon and then Monday just isn't normal. From very friendly and open on Sat, to good time Sat night, to calm/peaceful Sun morning, to royal b!tch for no reason Sunday afternoon, to absolutely great mood all day Monday. Maybe it is the stress of the sitch, but something isn't right. I almost get the sense that we are about to change moods again...call it a 6th sense from brief discussions and reading body language towards me at work meetings today...

I got our reservations changed for our ski weekend as we talked about last night, as she really wanted, and when I told her, she asked what place was it, how far away, is it the one that took the dog, etc. All the things we talked about last night that led us to wanting to change. I was baffled. I should have been a hero for getting it done and talking them out of all the fees, because we both thought this other place looked a lot better.

I cannot piece together mood swings and meds. She didn't initially tell me when she was put on them and there were so many other things going on at the time with us, that I can't piece that together. She does have pain prescriptions but they are take as needed and I don't think she's been taking them hardly at all...I will have to check without her seeing me (snooping).