I think you will read those books to say what you want to hear.
Are you this way about everything in life?
You mean you think I will use the information to point the finger at my ex and not accept any responsibilities for our situation?
I'm really just looking to them for a way to deal with the pain I'm feeling. To actually get the full effects of the two dealing with infidelity my ex would have to actually want to come back and work things out.
She's not in any position emotionally to read anything relationship-centered and actually take any of it to heart. While it would probably be quite enlightening to her to read some of each of them...so she could see how I'm feeling and understand her own feelings towards the OM better...she would likely throw the books in my face if I asked her to read any of them.
So they're just for me...in the hopes that I can use what I learn to accept and maybe care less about what's happened to me. Once I begin to not care so much...I might be able to start moving on.
