He already filed his petition for D with the court and it has already been assigned a judge. So my L is just answering it and requesting temp support in the meantime. I think it was a bluff that he's being transferred or promoted overseas. I still have to put up with asking him for money and keep track of it. It says in the court paperwork that they strongly suggest for him to voluntarily pay CS. The man doesn't care. Arrogant selfish jerk.
My weekend away was so enlightening. I'm finding myself... my desires, my dreams. I let him control me so much that I forgot who I was, what I liked, what I thought was fun. During this period without him, I've made MY friends, not joined him with his. He always had a complaint about my friends or their husbands. This birthday was so much better than the bash he threw for me last year. He may have spent lots of money then, but I got lots of love instead this year. I'm feeling like I'm re-writing history in a way. ??? I'm remembering who I was.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
