My friend last night pointed out that X isn't having to deal with any of the "death" involved in this. I am facing the death of the R, the death of my living space, the death of my place in town. If he gets the house, he does not have to face the loss of anything.
Death is a blessing, because it makes room for (re-)birth.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
