trytry, I can relate to how tricky it is to figure out what GAL is. Dating isn't really the right thing for you and I right now, IMO. The bomb is too recent. Something social focused on something that really interests you would be better.
Maybe try to finish this sentence a few times: I would feel confident if __________ [finish sentence with something that you can do]
You have no kids, so there's no excuse for you to not GAL .
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.