Stay calm BBJ....push for the divorce....do what you know needs to be done. This has gone on long enough. If by some minor miracle somewhere down the road, Dan sees the light AND YOU decide to give it another shot, fine. For the time beeing, it apears to be an open and shut case....DO IT.
Don't misunderstand me BBJ, I know this is difficult. We all wrestle with certain feelings once in a while. I am no exception...however my head knows what is right and where I should be going. Sure, it is the more romantic thing to say "follow your heart". But eventually we have to come to certain realizations. We need to move on with our lives. If I were to be totally truthfull, I would say that the majority of us on this site hang on way too long for our own good. Hypothetical sitch, Dan (or my XW)say tommorow that they want back in. With all the crap they put us through, what are our real chances of success. Sure, if they repent and go back to who they were when we fell in love....what are the chances of that happening.... I better go buy a lottery ticket!
