Sitches for Dummies

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Compassionate and warm - that's a laugh
Sir - can I have your autograph....
Never have I met an untold lie
To marry another is to die

Your freedom is free - free from you
Lost forever in the words "I do"
First the excuse, I have to work late
They dress up for a meeting, She is out on a date


"Oh, my love, I'll be faithful forever"
What she really means is - only when we are together
To love, to honor and then to obey
And then who do you think has all the say

Wash the dishes, clean the floors
Scrub the bath and fix the door
You listen to me, I am your wife
What she really means - is a slave for life

And then an argument, the fight is on
Just like chess, you become the pawn
You are walked on - a doormat - overlooked
You sit alone at home with your DB'ing book

Out with the boys, gone away
But why is she doing this everyday
The house, the kids all left behind
Is it no wonder we loose our minds

I love you, I do and now not at all
She dropped the Bomb - now the fall
She is cold and distant - it is her fight to win
But I choose the marriage - let the fight now begin

I 180, I Gal and do the L. R. T.
I do this even though it makes no sense to me
The wife in an A on the 5 o'clock news
I have no way to bust it - feelin' the DB'ing blues

So I come to this forum to spill my guts
And find others like me - more DB'ing NUTS
We fight to live and live to be strong
We hold hands in the night for now they are long

Alone we all sit trying to figure out our spouses
Bleeding internally in a love lost houses
We leave the door open, we leave it cracked
We honor our marriages and get our faces smacked

For the Walk Away Spouse seems to have all the control
Until we take our lives back and take back our soul
How do we do this... here's what to do
Listen to the words this forum gives to you

Love from a distance, give them their space
Time is your ally, reconcilation no race
You GAL like a mother - its called "getting a life"
You 180 the bad sh!t - and prove it to your wife

She will continue to run to the arms of another
So you drop the rope and say good luck with that brother
Give them the space to crash and burn
They will one day wake up and it will be our turn

Do we love them enough to let them back in
Is the marriage now worth it, to try it again
Will the trust ever be there - can we become one
A first love / second chance - could be so much fun

So now, after all this - as I make myself sick
This is my attempt at my own limrick
To my wife for whom forever I take
From your cheerful husband - my mistake

You told me to rely on you and give you my trust
How was I supposed to know you'd turn my dreams to dust
You came like a swirling wing, you captured my lonely heart
You told me that you'd love me true amd that we'd never part

Do you really think that after loving you,
I'd ever let you go
By now you know I love you true, and still you had to go

As I try to say "good-bye" to you
I know you will come again
Maybe next time - I can be
You're loving husband and not your cheerful friend....

sad moments guys....! (end is near)