I, for one, completely understand what you are going through because my H behaves in the exact same way yours does. He's usually unresponsive when we're discussing our R, changes the subject during R discussions and refuses to acknowledge things I've requested. Believe me, we've had very similar convos. I know how frustrated you must be - I'm feeling it too.
(((((HUGS)))))
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz