CLV, Sounds like there is going to be some competition for the father of the year award. Sounds like you had an awesome weekend with your kids they are lucky to have you as their father, I think that is something we LBH's share. Your children will recognize you as being the "rock" for them, even at a young age they will pick up on the parent that seems to be focused on the kids rather than themselves.
So the calls have increased? While she is relishing in her freedom, there is no one around to be pissed at what she is doing. What were the calls about? If I were a betting man,(hey, I am a betting man...) I would say that the calls will increase and become more frequent. Her "fun" will wear out sooner rather than later, you should read up on how to set boundaries, the time will come when she wants to do things with you might be a couple of weeks but I bet it will happen. That will be your opportunity to make a statement about her infidelity. Read some of puppy dog tails posts, you should be prepared.
The nights alone are hard I know, try to find something for me it is reading when I get a chance. But since I have the kids pretty much 24/7, I would love to have one night at home alone.
Stay in touch, take care.
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
