Ugh, I have bad tequila experiences. But limoncello isn't bad.
I started out with the attitude that if BF wanted out then he would have to be the one to leave, to split things up, etc. Of course he just wanted to continue cake eating and let things remain status quo. I got so fed up and decided I was done so I took control. I was tired of him being a cheater, liar and coward and I told him so. That sure got his attention.
I know other people don't look forward to dating because there are a lot of frogs out there, but I tend to think of it as exciting and fun. I totally lap up the attention and found it a great tool to regain some self-esteem. If BF doesn't want me then fine, there are lots of other men out there who do.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g