Back here, for the second time... #69

[pearlharbr]

Kalni, I totally get that you're frustrated with H's lack of action. But this example stood out to me:

-I need to tell you something serious (H)
-I am all ears
-I didnt like it when you said you dont need my yelling infront of the kids
-WHAT? This is something else, I am telling I had enough and you ...
-SURE!! NOTHING I say is serious, right?

H was attempting to have a serious conversation with you but you blew him off because you didn't want to discuss that particular incident, you wanted to talk about what YOU wanted to talk about. I can see how, if that is a pattern, that would frustrate H and lead him to conclude that you will never hear him out or will only talk on your terms.

I know that you are at a crossroad and agree that H needs to step up now or risk losing you and his family forever. I just think that perhaps this is his babystep at opening up and you just steamrolled right over it.