Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[flowmom]

I would strongly suggest that you keep the profesional involved. You could focus on Co-parenting instead of M issues.

That totally makes sense. And by working on co-parenting, you are indirectly working on your M because you're working on communication, conflict resolution, and cooperation. That's one of the few things that parents have going for them in a separation situation.