One last question for the day: She wants a divorce, I dont. Do I fight it or go along with the plan? (Lawyer appointments, helping her pack, selling things, etc. etc.)
At this stage, never initiate conversations about D or separation. If you don't want a D, do absolutely nothing to move it forward -- make her do all the work. Whether on not you help her with moving out, etc. depends on the specifics of the situation and you will learn more about that from the DR book. Tell your W that you've decided that you are not ready to make any legal or financial decisions right now.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
