Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[Ready2Change]

2.) H wants to pick the kids up daily from school/daycare to spend time with them.
Is this a good idea?

YES it is a good idea.

Should I let them go back to "our house" during this time or pick them up from the apartment?

He can take them anywhere BUT YOUR HOUSE. I recommend adopting a "Drop off Parenting arrangement" The parent with the kids drops them off to the other parent. Example: I will pick the kids up from school tonight for "Tuesday dinner visit" and then drop them off at MsR2C house at 7:30.

We have MC tonight @ 4. Should I say I want to continue or should I say no "He just needs to go to IC instead?"

I would strongly suggest that you keep the profesional involved. You could focus on Co-parenting instead of M issues.

[quote]4.) Should I ask for the house key when he moves out? The key fobs for my vehicle? YES and YES