"Chitchat" and "cuddle," all in the same paragraph.
'nuff said.
Puppy
well puppy I said people would likely view it as pressure. I can even see that.
but as I said I havent even brought it up to her and may not. if I did, I could always weed out the things I think she would object to beforehand. but then if I do that, I would likely end up with something I'm not happy with.
I mean if a couple of family lunches/activites each week and nothing else would accomplish as much as the whole thing I laid out it would be worth doing. But I think all that would do is satisfy her while leaving me hanging. Essentially it would be better to do nothign than to do that.