There once was a poster named Choc, Whose wife, when 'came to sex, she would balk, But then he changed to the Pup, Old moniker given up, And with Newbies he committed he'd walk.
(ok, so it doesn't really say how I'm doing, and it's no There Once Was a Man from Nantucket, which is, admittedly, a classic, so SUE me . . . )
Originally Posted By: Super Girl Can I get a synopsis of how everyone is doing? Preferably in a Haiku? LOL laugh j/k
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Poster: Puppy Dog Tails How about a limerick?
There once was a man from The Circus, Whose wife thought he was one big jerkus. She said, "I'm gone, and we're toast!" And he started to post, But his stubbornness - o how it irks us.
Compassionate and warm - that's a laugh Sir - can I have your autograph.... Never have I met an untold lie To marry another is to die
Your freedom is free - free from you Lost forever in the words "I do" First the excuse, I have to work late They dress up for a meeting, She is out on a date
"Oh, my love, I'll be faithful forever" What she really means is - only when we are together To love, to honor and then to obey And then who do you think has all the say
Wash the dishes, clean the floors Scrub the bath and fix the door You listen to me, I am your wife What she really means - is a slave for life
And then an argument, the fight is on Just like chess, you become the pawn You are walked on - a doormat - overlooked You sit alone at home with your DB'ing book
Out with the boys, gone away But why is she doing this everyday The house, the kids all left behind Is it no wonder we loose our minds
I love you, I do and now not at all She dropped the Bomb - now the fall She is cold and distant - it is her fight to win But I choose the marriage - let the fight now begin
I 180, I Gal and do the L. R. T. I do this even though it makes no sense to me The wife in an A on the 5 o'clock news I have no way to bust it - feelin' the DB'ing blues
So I come to this forum to spill my guts And find others like me - more DB'ing NUTS We fight to live and live to be strong We hold hands in the night for now they are long
Alone we all sit trying to figure out our spouses Bleeding internally in a love lost houses We leave the door open, we leave it cracked We honor our marriages and get our faces smacked
For the Walk Away Spouse seems to have all the control Until we take our lives back and take back our soul How do we do this... here's what to do Listen to the words this forum gives to you
Love from a distance, give them their space Time is your ally, reconcilation no race You GAL like a mother - its called "getting a life" You 180 the bad sh!t - and prove it to your wife
She will continue to run to the arms of another So you drop the rope and say good luck with that brother Give them the space to crash and burn They will one day wake up and it will be our turn
Do we love them enough to let them back in Is the marriage now worth it, to try it again Will the trust ever be there - can we become one A first love / second chance - could be so much fun
So now, after all this - as I make myself sick This is my attempt at my own limrick To my wife for whom forever I take From your cheerful husband - my mistake
You told me to rely on you and give you my trust How was I supposed to know you'd turn my dreams to dust You came like a swirling wing, you captured my lonely heart You told me that you'd love me true amd that we'd never part
Do you really think that after loving you, I'd ever let you go By now you know I love you true, and still you had to go
As I try to say "good-bye" to you I know you will come again Maybe next time - I can be You're loving husband and not your cheerful friend....
sad moments guys....! (end is near)
Me 43 / W 40 T 29 / M 15 S-18 11/4/09-ILYBINILWY 11/10/09-Separated 12/1/09-W admitted EA 12/5/09-W admitted PA 12/24/09 W say "I love you"
"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"