Your sitch is so much like a ton of people here and not. FB, is exactly how my wife started, FB is the root of evil. Here comes a 2X4 to the head. BOUNDARIES!!! Lay down some boundaries, bust the affair, read up on what Puppy says with exposure, busting, etc. She must feel the consequences of her actions. Tough love is what is in order, you must man up, you are being used like a maid, you are being disrespected so much. How can you share your wife with another man? DB is about making yourself better regardless of the outcome, so get on with that.
