I def dont know everything- but I would not do it. Here's the deal- the only way for anything to work out for you two is for her to want to come back. I tried Plan A and being the better option- I could have done a better job but was not detatched, so any injustice sent me flying off the handle. She knows everything you're going to say to her, she knows how you feel, she's just not there right now- the oxytocin and such causes trust for OM and amnesia for you. I would just keep doing what you were doing w/ NC and GAL, PMA, and detatch- DETATCH!!! It doesnt matter what shes doing- she's not doing it w/ you. She knows where you live and shes not there, she knows its morning and she's not saying good morning to you, etc, etc, etc. Make her wonder, let her A fizzle, and then maybe you'll give her another chance when/if she comes around. I know it's a hard pill to swallow- just do it anyway. I'm there w/ you- I'm telling myself these same things every day.
