I agree with the others. Make it so that what she "wants" to plan is "convenient" for you. If she wants it so bad, she has to make the plans accommodate you.
She will get pissed saying that you are holding things up. Not at all. You've just got more important things in your life.
Think of her like a teenager. She's making demands, throwing a tantrum and running away from home. You stand strong yet be flexible enough to avoid her tantrums.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
