Just wanted to say I have been reading along your posts and admiring how you are getting through the worst of situations so well.
Serenity, you are doing great with your S.
Gardener, I can only hope for the detachment and "done with it"feelings you have. Of course, if X keeps behaving as he is, it will be easier to get to that state!
I do want to be helpful and post to the newcomers--my heart breaks every time I see a new name with recent "registered" date, but I don't feel I have anything helpful to offer. Do you think just a "welcome, sorry you are here?" is enough?
I want to return some of the massive amounts of good karma that others have been pouring on to me.
So--here are best wishes to you all. I'll keep checking in.
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process