Serenity, MO3, Gardener-

Just wanted to say I have been reading along your posts and admiring how you are getting through the worst of situations so well.

Serenity, you are doing great with your S.

Gardener, I can only hope for the detachment and "done with it"feelings you have. Of course, if X keeps behaving as he is, it will be easier to get to that state!

I do want to be helpful and post to the newcomers--my heart breaks every time I see a new name with recent "registered" date, but I don't feel I have anything helpful to offer. Do you think just a "welcome, sorry you are here?" is enough?

I want to return some of the massive amounts of good karma that others have been pouring on to me.

So--here are best wishes to you all. I'll keep checking in.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process