thank you all so far for responding and i am sorry all you(me too) are going through this pain. I am having trouble sleeping, worried and it's been going on for over a year and a half. I am faced at this time to try to save up money for filing the divorce papers myself. I do feel i need to break this holding pattern she has put me into and she has offered to sign whatever just to be rid of me. we'll see what happens I think my wife is headed for jail due to a warrent mabey thats her rock bottom but who knows. i keep praying and my thought and prayers are with you all. I did order the dvd from this site
