I hear you pigskin. This came up today. We had an initial mediation appointment and there wsa a part where my wife said "I want to do what's best for my kids" and I almost got sick. What she really meant was "what is best for the kids in a situation where I want to move out for my own selfish reasons".
Next time correct her. What's best for the kids is to keep the family together and restore a loving relationship. What she is after is what makes her feel better about how badly the kids are going to get screwed.
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