Each situation is unique....try telling someone who just discovered they matched the powerball numbers not to be excited.
I think dday has been actively working his path on resolving issues and getting past the "cause". But my recomendation to him was more in the interest of calming some of the turmoil that can so easily get in the way.
Reminds me of a a great phrase I read once:
I want to slide into the grave thinking "Man, what a ride!!!"
Sometimes caution for the sake of caution can hold back the best in people.
