That makes a lot sense. Good advice. I know you just went thru a similar stage like this, so I really appreciate that input. I was thinking about Valentines day. No word from H on that yet, but my single girlfriends were going to go out for fondue for a girls night out. So going along that line, I'm going to plan to do that (if I can find someone to watch S - way too active for fancy restaurants), and if H wants to do something, then I can decide then. I like it. Living my life (but I can still see it being a little hard not to think about what H is up to, right. But I'm sure that's normal).
Just some of the things on my mind right now too - so yes, Valentine's Day in less than 2 weeks, our 4 year anniversary in a month (March 4th) and then my birthday a month later (April 3rd). Lots of things coming up, but don't know what to expect from them... Hopefully I'll have more clarity as these events come around.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10