"H cannot be guided thru me to even try some improved communication method, he resists anything that comes from me. At least his first reaction is refusal." But in reality I don't want my wife to just go through the motions either; I feel that if she does not do it on her own then it is not something she wants. As for him yelling at your D.... I have the opposite sitch here... Wife and son get into arguments and if I try to get in and help her I turn into the bad guy, so even though it makes me feel like I am NOT co parenting...I try to just stay out of it. Of course if she asked me to help I would. "I am planning on starting having a massage every 2 weeks. Never done that and I need it."I could not even imagine getting a massage right now. I have been without intimacy for so long I would be afraid of what might arise if I got a massage...Woman or man I have started a "self centering" exercise though 30 min of just doing nothing but relaxation listening to a tape. Shrimp spaghetti? Never heard of it but it does sound good. Next time let me know so I can stop by for a taste
Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
