have you really read the divorce remedy? if not, read it.

and no, you don't want to go to counseling, IMHO, it won't do any good right now, and besides, men don't like people telling them what's wrong with them.

and stop letting his actions change how you feel. Pretend as though he is not your H right now, because one, he's not, and he is a good friend. You just go about your life like it doesn't matter what he does, your going to just enjoy life with or without him.

I have to go, but I'm glad that your going to put 100% now. I think we could all tell you hadn't made a decision to actually do this, but I hope that you really do this for real. You have to do this for YOU.

and you CAN do this.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."