Here's what you need to remember- I have only recently learned this. WAW is not the only one in a fog- the LBS is also. Like Coach, Puppy, GNO, and others (Sandi) have said- the WAW has no repest for LBS- they are a burden, they regret having ever known us, etc, etc,- there is no attraction. In our fog- we believe this cannot be the case, so we beg, cry, pursue, etc. This re-enforces the WAW's belief that we are all the things they think. Stand up to her, put her in her place- show her that you are (or feel) that you are more important than she is. TRUST ME- my fog is only now lifting- I was a doormat, even though I tried not to be. As a result I got more script- "so much has happened I cant ever see myself being w/ you again, you have been very unattractive." Even though my intensions were good, I wanted to draw her close by doing what would have worked if she was in love or still into the M.
You will see many vets post- The LBS must become the WAW- this is what you do. You stand up to her, press charges, rebuild yourself, be distant and too busy for her. THAT IS WHAT YOU SHOULD DO.
You have an opportunity to learn from my mistakes- BELIEVE ME, I regret not getting a restraining order against W and OM.
