I am not going to file today - but I need to ensure that the children are taken care of - so true that I am HISSED off right now - cool off period is needed.
If NOTHING else comes of it, cooling off will allow you to focus.
Either way you chose to go you'll need to take the high road. It is ( and was for me) the toughest thing to learn- but it will help YOU & YOURS if you do not act from anger.
I liked to go the other (low road) for along time. Show my a$$, make remarks, be hissed - it's a wonder i ever was able to 180 after I found out @ my W's A. But I did and things were looking up for ME, before she came back and we began piecing.
The reason i mention looking up for ME is, and I think you mentioned it another post, applying this DBing Stuff works in all types of relationships.
So if you are DBing or Just D ing- Stay COOL, CALM, CALCULATED and FOCUSED - handle yourself with dignity, stay on course and yes -smile at the S.O.B. the whole time (that is gauranteed to HISS him off!)!
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
