She must be seeing a lawyer...what now?

[January girl]

It's a true joy for me.

But in my mind I now have some guilt about how my music has impacted my marriage, that I have never had before. I need to sort it out.

Now I'm worried that music is a guilty pleasure.

It's just more stuff I got to work out.

OK so here is my take on this (for whatever it's worth)...
Music is obviously something that calms your soul....which
I understand because H is a musician too. I don't think you have anything to feel guilty about because it's not like you up and abandoned your family one day. You did/do this as a vocation which is ok. I would see this as a tool to help you thru these tough times. I'm so glad you have a plan for V-day. Have a great day!

I think that your W is simply jealous of your success/ enjoyment in this area....how petty of her!! I'm sure she could have those things too if she'd get her head out of her a$$ and sober up!
(Just saying)