Hi Tom-haven't read through your sitch but noticed on your last post that your W did notice the dishes and how that was different from what you normally do so that tells me that she is watching you for reactions and will notice any changes...you need to keep working on those 180's because she will also notice any good changes you make! I see you have sandi on your side! That is awesome! Hang in there!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing