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Yellow feathers in her hair, and a dress cut down to there...

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Love that song!! Really, I do... blush I should put it on my iPod when I work out it would sure make me smile!

I am good with inglorious basterds (anybody know why it is spelled that way? bothers me!) I will have to survive another week without Johnny Depp--oh yeah I have all the Pirates on DVD wink

My H sidesteps that issue with an "I will always love you but" approach. I asked him a month or so ago, "What AM I to you? Your wife, your friend, the woman you used to love, your enemy, the mother of your kids, what?"

He said he honestly had never thought of it that way and didn't know?? (Where is the eye-rolling smiley when you need it?)

Happy Friday Lola. Hope you feel better. I hate those Mucinex commercials for the visual images. Those and the ones where the little critter that sounds like Don Rickles tears up your toenail and jumps in---ouch!!


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Hmm I wonder what the SG would say if I asked him THAT question. Probably the same thing...

Think of Bill Cosby saying... "I dunno...."


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My H just text me and said we should plan a trip to the water park with Jack (our son), with some people, kids would have fun. What do you think?


Awww...this is what I mean...


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Do you want to go?


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Honestly, if you want to go, then I think it is a positive sign. The fact that he is asking to spend time with you and your S is really fab...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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BobbiJo: The title is not in English. That's German I believe.

I find it less confusing when there is less contact lol. I am SO glad I get to file taxes single this year! No back and forth about the W-2s, no extensions cuz he can't get his $h!t together, no meeting up however many times to try and sort it out. Just me. I don't have to worry about his crap! LOL


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BobbiJo: The title is not in English. That's German I believe.

I find it less confusing when there is less contact lol. I am SO glad I get to file taxes single this year! No back and forth about the W-2s, no extensions cuz he can't get his $h!t together, no meeting up however many times to try and sort it out. Just me. I don't have to worry about his crap! LOL


Thanks for the clarification, Michelle, that has been driving me crazy! So do we have a definitive day for the movie?

UGH, taxes! This is our last year to do them together, I hope! Dan has all kinds of cattle expenses and stuff, it takes him forever to be ready so we never file until April. I want my money NOW!!

Back to you, Lola, how are you???


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I am great. First day back at the job, it has been wonderful! Everyone is very happy to have me back, and I am so glad to be back. Sometimes God does work in mysterious ways...

I sent SG a final email, telling him I loved him, that I didn't want a divorce, but that I wasn't trying to get him back or anything. It was just a gut instinct I have had for more than a week. I told him that I wasn't going to fight it, but I just wanted him to know. Kind of an acceptance of the fact email.

He thought I was bugging him to get moving on the divorce papers.

I am sitting here, shaking my head and wondering how I could love such an idiot. And realizing that the feeling of wanting to fix this is finally starting to pass, as acceptance creeps in.

I am definitely ready for this to be finished now. And am actually looking forward to it being finished.

Lola has come almost full circle...damn it feels good!


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Glad you are having a good first day back! Always nice to have a job you enjoy!

Coming full circle is good too. (((Lola)))

Re movie: I think we said Monday Tuesday or Fridays would work? And I suggested Feb 12th for Inglorious Basterds. I can get ahold of it by then. smile


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Feb 12 is good for me. I think they are still playing it On Demand.


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