I don’t think it explains why you or any of us are D’d. LOL
I try to look at it a little differently. In my sitch, and most of us, I am going to have to deal with H, for the rest of my life in some way because I have a child with him. Although, I do not want or plan to be his best friend, I do want to get along and have a decent R with him.
There will be graduations, weddings, birth of grandchildren. Times when we will have to see each other and interact. I don’t want those times to be uncomfortable for my S or for either of us. If we can be cordial, friendly, that will make those things easier. If nothing else, that is one positive that could be a lasting result.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
