Well, I checked through her phone this morning before work. I did not see any numbers out of the ordinary except the phone call to her Ex. Even though I know she went to see her ex-motherinlaw a couple weeks ago which meets up with the time frame that the call happened. But it still hurt. (The fact that she ran into him during her visit and said nothing till a week later also hurt..)
So Im going to the bookstore after work this evening to see which of Micheles books they have and start trying to find myself. (Any suggestions on which one to start with?) I do have one quick question tho and if its been answered before I apologize, but this one is supposed to happen today and I would like a bit of advice. She is supposed to call around and talk to some attorneys/mediators today. If she finds one she is wanting to make an appointment during my work hours for us to go. Issue is that I have a deadline that I really need to keep this week at work. So would asking her to wait for the appointment until I can get this completed before I take a day off work be the right thing to do? Or would that be pushing her farther away? (Remember my first post about putting things off) If its the right thing to do, then I have no issue taking the time off as the way I look at it work will always be there, but then that conflicts with the things I have read here about taking care of myself... soooo much to learn.
Last edited by Wired; 02/02/1012:42 PM.
M:40 W:40 D: 21 S: 18 D: 17 Md: 18 years -1/19/2010 W wants out -6/03/10 "Live for today, for tomorrow is promised to no-one.."
