Things are moving forward even if slowly. Both of you are learning to deal with different issues and also both learning that what they do results in either good behaviour or historic behaviour. It is going to take a long time to sort out and get used to the new behaviour and for H this is a real trust issue, and obviously hits him far more emotionally than he has ever been able to express except in anger.
Was glad that MC got over that hes responses to his hurt feelings are demeaning and actually cause more harm than good. Its up to you now kiddo to keep bashing away at ODP till it becomes normal and then H lets his hair down and starts explaining his frustration.
Its definitely slow but steady progress and you should both be proud of where you have come from and where you are going too!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
